First off, self-worth is defined as the sense of one’s own value or worth as a person.
Every woman should know their worth and should not allow anyone treat them less than they should be treated. When a woman holds herself in high esteem she would never allow anyone mistreat her, speak terribly to her or even make her less of a human. When a woman knows her self worth she is confident in her own abilities. When a woman doesnâ€™t know her self-worth she gets trapped in terrible relationships which leads to been broken.
Having a high-esteem doesnâ€™t guarantee a happy relationship but it enables a woman know what she wants and what she deserves to have and the ability to walk away from a bad and depressing relationship.
A woman needs to carry herself very high and by this I donâ€™t mean being proud, having a high self-esteem doesnâ€™t mean you should be a proud person it simply means not subjecting your self to rubbish be it in a relationship, in public or wherever. Some women appear to have a great sense of self-worth but on the inside they die of depression, low self-worth and they even doubt themselves.
A damaged self-worth can be fixed by:
- Not ever wallowing in self pity : You need to take a hold of yourself and move on from whatever might have happened, because you need to acknowledge what has happened and move on;
- Re-evaluating yourself : You need to re-evaluate yourself because this would help you re-check yourself to see where you need to adjust;
- Being willing to adjust your self image: If you might have been a person whose self-esteem was low you would need to adjust yourself and this has to be after you re-evaluated your life;
- Trying new things: For a woman who has had a broken self-worth, you would have to try out new stuffs, change your thoughts and your viewpoints about things in general;
- Being willing to say no to whatever might try to tamper with your self-worth.
Article by Tito Joseph