The South African singer explained the motive behind the song in a Facebook post,
There’s something about infidelity that leaves a woman feeling vulnerable, bare and exposed. I know this may sound controversial but this applies to both women in the scenario, the “main” and the “side”. I say this because one thing life has taught me is that love sees no wrong and love sometimes sees no right, it doesn’t give you the choice to decide who you fall in love with. The heart wants what it wants. It wants what it shouldn’t and doesn’t want what it should and in all of this people, often the women, get hurt. This is not a justification, it’s just my view, my revelation, the view I tried to depict in the ‘iLula’ music video.
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