In March 1974, ABC aired a groundbreaking television special that championed individuality and empowerment for a generation of children. Spearheaded by the visionary Marlo Thomas, “Free to Be… You and Me” graced the screens and hearts of many, ultimately earning an Emmy award for Outstanding Children’s Special. Initially released as an album in November 1972, the project was a collaborative effort by the Ms. Foundation for Women, co-founded by Thomas, with an accompanying illustrated book.
Thomas enlisted a star-studded lineup of celebrities to bring “Free to Be… You and Me” to life on the small screen. From legendary artists like Harry Belafonte and Michael Jackson to icons such as Diana Ross, Roberta Flack, and Dionne Warwick, the special showcased a diverse range of talents that resonated with audiences. Notable actors like Alan Alda, Tom Smothers, Carol Channing, Dustin Hoffman, and Mel Brooks also joined the cast, delivering powerful messages of self-acceptance and inclusivity.
Despite its wholesome themes, bringing “Free to Be… You and Me” to television faced its share of challenges. Thomas revealed that ABC initially resisted including certain elements, such as the song “It’s All Right to Cry,” which encouraged young boys to express their emotions. Another contentious issue was the inclusion of “William Wants a Doll,” a story challenging gender norms by depicting a boy playing with a doll. Additionally, a scene showing Thomas and Belafonte pushing strollers together was met with resistance due to Belafonte’s race.
Beyond challenging gender stereotypes, “Free to Be… You and Me” advocated for tolerance, equality, and individuality, making a lasting impact on generations to come. In 2020, a new digital series featuring Thomas and other project members, alongside newcomers like Drew Barrymore and Sara Bareilles, celebrated the original message for a modern audience. In a statement, Thomas emphasized the continued relevance of the project’s themes, particularly in today’s tumultuous times.
As the cultural landscape evolves, Thomas remains committed to adapting the message of “Free to Be… You and Me” for a more inclusive world. By recognizing and embracing the non-binary community, the project continues to stand as a beacon of acceptance and self-expression, resonating with audiences seeking empowerment and validation in an ever-changing society.
Peace Nero is a writer and blogger who loves to explore different topics of self-development. She shares her personal experiences in order to help people discover their true purpose in life.
