At the 2025 KISS Kruise in Las Vegas, Gene Simmons shared a heartfelt reflection with fans. The legendary bassist expressed his regret over not being more present for his former bandmates Ace Frehley and Peter Criss during their time in the spotlight in the 1970s.
Simmons, now 76, opened up about his wish to have been more supportive and involved in helping Frehley and Criss lead happier lives. He acknowledged the common tendency to prioritize personal success and comfort over the well-being of others. Reflecting on past decisions, Simmons admitted that tough love could have made a positive difference in their lives.
Frehley, a founding member of KISS in 1973, passed away in October 2025 at the age of 74. Known for their wild lifestyles, both Frehley and Criss left the band in the 1980s but later returned for subsequent iterations.
Simmons has always taken a firm stance against drugs and alcohol, emphasizing the importance of professionalism and sobriety. He has been vocal about his decision to hold his bandmates accountable for their behavior, even if it meant being perceived as the “bad guy” in the group.
In a 2014 interview, Simmons emphasized the consequences of poor decision-making, contrasting his own successful path with the struggles faced by Frehley and Criss. He highlighted the importance of maintaining discipline and avoiding destructive habits in order to achieve long-term success.
Frehley himself reflected on his past drug use in a 2025 interview, revealing his dedication to sobriety and professional integrity. Despite the challenges of his earlier years, Frehley emphasized his commitment to delivering top performances and earning the respect of his audience.
As Frehley and Criss navigated their own paths towards sobriety, Simmons remained steadfast in his commitment to a clean and focused lifestyle. His unwavering dedication to his craft, combined with his willingness to confront difficult truths, has set him apart as a beacon of strength and resilience in the industry.
In a world where success often comes with sacrifices, Simmons’ willingness to hold himself and others accountable serves as a reminder of the importance of integrity and personal responsibility. His journey stands as a testament to the power of discipline and self-awareness in achieving lasting fulfillment.
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